I Hate being used by people you thought were your friends. They a nice friendly to you to persuade you to do what they need you to do. I am just an old-fashioned, Christian, gentlemen (not being conceited). Somehow I believe people take my kindness as a target for their laziness. All the people who I thought were my friends for the last few years are now in questions. Did they really like me for me or did they just use me like a garbage bag? How can you trust someone, who is nice to you sometimes (when they need something), and mean to you the next?
Life is too short to worry about being used. Life is already stressful and exhausting enough. After, attempting to try please please everyone, I feel liking just quitting cause I shortly realized that I doing either all the work, or doing everything by myself. I have this one lady friend, who I have always enjoyed being around, until this year. I shortly realized that she was just using me, to do what she was to lazy to do for herself. Last school year was the worst. I had gotten so stressed out trying to please everyone and being perfect. I just shutdown, I felt like a potato. I couldn't think, sleep, comprehend, learn, anything.
When you actually find out that your doing everything for little appreciation, you getting the feeling to just stop and give up. But, you can't you were born this way. Being class president this year has really opened up my eyes to how some they all want something, but some of them shy away from, helping out. I love my class to death though, they are very cooperative and appreciative.
It's just crazy to think about if everyone in the world wasn't in it for them that maybe, the world would be at peace. Just a thought though. The Bible says "If anyone has material possessions, and sees his brothers in need, but have no pity on him, how can the love of God be in him.( 1John 3:17)
What I trying to say is that time is too precious, to be wasting on people who are not really there for you. I'm not saying that you should doing thing for others. Just that sometimes you have to learn to say 'NO', which many people have a hard time saying.
Keep Your Head Up. . . Remember be who God created you to be . . . and have a great weekend!!!!!!!
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